Dear Mum, here’s why we want you in the photos too

To all the wonderful mothers reading this:

When it comes to having your photo taken, we know how easy it can be to become hyper-aware of ourselves and the skin we’re in. We are all too familiar with that critical inner voice that can often override any desire to take photographs of ourselves. We know how it feels to prefer being behind the camera rather than in front of it, because we’ve felt that way too. But we don’t want you to miss out on these special moments that truly matter.

At Verve Portraits, we know how mums can feel when it comes to being photographed. That’s why it’s our mission to ensure that every single person who enters through our studio doors drops their inhibitions and comes out with images to be enjoyed and cherished for years to come. Through our family and motherhood photography sessions, we want to remind you that you are deserving of beautiful, lasting memories with your loved ones.

We want your portrait session to be a time where you feel free, gorgeous, and yourself. We want to encourage a new mindset that allows you to know just how special having your photo taken can be, for your children, for the sake of your family memories, and to have those precious moments captured in time.

Even if you don’t feel like it now, you will love these images in years to come.

Hindsight is always 20/20, and we feel this rings so true in this scenario. Although today, you may not want to look at photographs of yourself, the value of memories in photos will grow over time.

Think of how much you treasure that photo of yourself and your parents at a young age, what it means to you to have that memory to have in your hands and to hold. In years to come, your children will feel the same way about their photos with you, and they won’t be seeing any flaws.

You are more special to them than you know.

From photographing thousands of families over the years, our family photographers know, as parents, just how hard we can be on ourselves. Although that critical inner voice may be running rampant, we are here to remind you that your children don’t hear this voice.

They don’t see your flaws or the things you don’t like about yourself. They see their Mum. The one that is there for them, protecting them, the one that loves them and makes everything feel right again. To them, you are their world.

Because they grow up so fast.

It sounds cliché to say, but the days are long and the years are fast in young parenthood. At the time, it feels as though certain stages may last forever, and before we know it, we are parents to school-aged children. Capturing those fleeting moments of childhood wonder through family and motherhood photography means you will have those memories to treasure forever in your own home, even once they are big and grown.

Images of you will be important during hard times.

Sometimes photographs take on even deeper meaning. One of our dear clients, Naomi, shared her story after her third portrait session with Verve, following a challenging year:

“It’s been particularly important to us. I’m a single parent to my daughter. And in the last twelve months, I got cancer. I’m in remission now, which is great. But it really showed me what’s important. Honestly, seeing these images is like therapy! I look at them, and it physically affects my body, my heart.

That connection is the only thing that’s important. There’s something special when you first hang the artwork on the walls, because the whole room changes. It changed everything in the room.”

Moments like this remind us of why we do what we do. Photography studios like ours don’t just create art; we help preserve the memories of your family and the resilience of motherhood.

Their memories should include you.

I know personally, looking back on images of my childhood is a great way to help remember what activities we did, the kinds of adventures we went on, and the mischief we got up to. But my Mum is hardly in any of the photos. I wish I had more glimpses of her from back then. What was her style like? How did she wear her hair? What colour lipstick did she put on? Your children deserve to have those memories with you, too, proof of how much you were there for them, loving them and supporting them.

Looking back

Have you ever looked back on photos of yourself as a teenager and thought, “Wow, I look incredible! Why did I ever not think I looked amazing?”

What if we looked at ourselves today the way we do when looking back at old photos? What if we took the leap and let someone take our photo today, knowing our flaws are magnified only by ourselves?

Find out more.

Want to learn more about Verve Portraits and our family photography? Browse our website or check us out on socials @verveportraitsGet a glimpse of our portraits and photography work, and find out more about what our Verve style is all about.

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Frequently Asked Questions

The blog explains that mums are often the ones taking photos but rarely appear in them. Including mums means the family story feels complete and everyone can look back on those memories together.

Mums are often the ones taking photos instead of being in them. Including mums means the family story feels complete and everyone can look back on those memories together.

Seeing their mum in photos helps children remember the moments they shared and reinforces their sense of belonging and love when they look back in the future.

Mums often focus on capturing everyone else and making sure things run smoothly. The blog points out that this is natural but also a reason why mums should intentionally step into the frame more often.

The blog suggests creating a relaxed, encouraging environment where everyone focuses on connection rather than perfect poses so mums feel more at ease and enjoy the experience.

Photos that include mums become cherished keepsakes that show real family life. Years later these images can become powerful reminders of love and connection for the whole family.

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